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If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?

Tapestry

Life is like a tapestry of cloth woven together by the good time and the bad. We all go through challenges in life and good times. The hard times do make us stronger and more resilient but, they can also break us down if we let them. We must learn to pick ourselves up, stand…

Fairytales and Fables

Reading fairytales to our children allows them to use their imagination and escape into a different world. Children get learn different lessons when they are read fairytales. Fairytales are those great stories from childhood that feature magical creatures and themes of good vs evil. They originate from folklore. They are often passed down through the…

Humming bird

Hummingbird fly You may reach the sky Flitter and flow Going high and then low Dodging to and fro Buzzing and gliding You’re often seen yellow, red, purple and emerald green scales reflecting light and shiny Oh, so delicate and tiny This poem is not to be copied or reproduced in any form.

I often wonder what happened to the world that we used to live in. It seems almost everything is replaced by technology. We are raising children in an age where some rarely even go outside to experience the joys of playing in the fresh air. Learning to ride a bike, fish in the creek, play on the playground or just pick a dandelion.

When I was growing up children played together in the neighborhood and played outside exploring their environment. It seems that this doesn’t happen as much anymore with organized sports, activities and technology leading the way. Children learned to use their imagination and explore their environment. They discover things like turtles, fish, shells or rocks. The also learned to play with others in their neighborhood and get along with them. Parents were less concerned with getting ahead and more with spending time with their kids.

I long for the days when these things took place. When the neighbor was there for you and you are were there for them. Why can’t be go back to the simple days where children got to be kids and parents helped them to enjoy the outdoors? Why can’t we foster the kind friendships where most kids got along with each other.

Why not take your kids to the beach, park or playground this weekend? Spending time with your kids is time you will never get back and is extremely important to their development. Go swimming when it warms up, skip rocks together or simply take in a movie.

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2 responses to “Simple Things”

  1. David Avatar

    I saw a comment once from an American psychologist noting how sad it is that the only time he sees a group of kids at a park, they are all wearing a sports uniform and being told by some adults what to do.
    While I let our now adult girls grow up fairly free in suburban New Zealand, and they did go and just hang with their friends as they got to that age, social pressure meant that they were very uninterested in anything too ‘outdoorsy’. Now they seem to have developed the “keep them indoors and keep them safe” mindset with their children. Meanwhile, at 70 I am still out hiking and backroad 4WD exploring. I am just waiting for the kids to get old enough for me to start ‘corrupting’ them with the outdoors.

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  2. kimsenecal Avatar

    It’s sad to me in today’s world that children do not play outside freely anymore. It was one the greatest joys of my childhood being able to play outside. I’ve been told by the younger generation that we are in a different world today and it is not really safe to play outside do to crimes such as child snatching. I have always been with my kids when they were growing up and we were outside.

    I love that you still keep that sense of wonder to go hiking and 4WD exploring. Love it.

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