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Popular old games for children

Children are often found on electronic devices now and don’t really get much opportunity to play outside. When I was growing up, many of the children in my neighborhood would play together and they learned social skills this way. Many different games were played in the neighborhood that did not require much time or money…

Parenting

When people become parents, they may raise their children differently than others. Some parents may be strict with their children and their time. Other parents may be into the gentle parenting style and want their children to be sensitive individuals. We all have our preferences for the way that we parent our children. Some parents…

Television Shows

What has happened to our culture and shows that are offered on tv now ? When I was growing up we had shows such as the Brady Bunch, Waltons and Little House on the Prairie. These shows taught lessons to kids and allowed children to learn about family. I don’t really see any of these…

Things move so quickly in public schools anymore. I worked as a substitute teacher for several years in elementary schools and discovered that kindergarten is like first grade now. Who would have thought that we would be pushing our children so much to succeed and not allowing them to be children as much. It seems a lot is about achievement anymore and don’t get me wrong I wanted my children to do well in school and maximize their abilities.

I did put my children in preschool one day a week so that would have socialization and I could have one day off. My kids enjoyed learning there and loved meeting other children. One day a preschool teacher approached me and asked why my son did not know his ABCS yet. I wasn’t aware that he needed to know them before starting preschool. Well, I was told that preschool is like kindergarten now and kindergarten is like first grade. I had no idea of this knowledge prior.

Before kids start kindergarten, they should know there ABCS, numbers and colors. There was no mention about how to interact with other children which my sons were quite able to do. Children also need to be able to get along with others, take turns, share and make friends with others.

I think before kindergarten children should know how to button and zipper their clothing because a teacher may not always be available to help them. I think children should be fully potty trained before they start as I subbed in a kindergarten class with a child or two having accidents.

I think we miss the boat when we just teach children academics and not the other important things that they need to know to navigate kindergarten. Why not give them all the skills necessary to make them a success in school.

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3 responses to “Things to Teach Kids Before Kindergarten”

  1. David Avatar

    That sounds as if we are moving structured learning earlier and earlier, despite evidence that young children need experience-based learning to develop their brain to a suitable level for structured learning.

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    1. kimsenecal Avatar

      I agree with you on that one. This maybe why teachers are seeing more mental health issues in children. We are pressuring them to test and get high score but, not have an opportunity to explore their environment.

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      1. David Avatar

        To paraphrase something I read from a child psychologist (US-city-based comment) “Why is the only time we children away from school in groups, they are wearing a uniform and being told what to do by a group of adults?”

        I love the sign at the entrance to a few of our small rural communities here in NZ “Caution Drivers – free range children”

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