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If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?

Popular old games for children

Children are often found on electronic devices now and don’t really get much opportunity to play outside. When I was growing up, many of the children in my neighborhood would play together and they learned social skills this way. Many different games were played in the neighborhood that did not require much time or money…

Parenting

When people become parents, they may raise their children differently than others. Some parents may be strict with their children and their time. Other parents may be into the gentle parenting style and want their children to be sensitive individuals. We all have our preferences for the way that we parent our children. Some parents…

Television Shows

What has happened to our culture and shows that are offered on tv now ? When I was growing up we had shows such as the Brady Bunch, Waltons and Little House on the Prairie. These shows taught lessons to kids and allowed children to learn about family. I don’t really see any of these…

Not everyone has been through trauma in life. Everyone can’t relate to someone who has been through trauma in life. We react differently to things than someone who has not been through trauma. We are hypervigilant about our environment and who is in that in environment. We notice small changes and a person’s personality easily. We feel things in our gut and have good intuition although we don’t always listen to our intuition.

We notice the small things such as a micro expression or the tone of someone’s voice. We notice whether body language aligns with the words coming from someone’s mouth. We notice the unsaid things and patterns in others’ behaviors. If we listen to this information that we are in tune with it can protect us from further harm.

If we shut down this intuition and ignore the red flags in behavior of people that are not safe for us, we will repeat the same pattern over and over in our lives.

It’s important to listen to these gut feelings we are getting and not ignore them to see the best in other people.

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