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If you could make your pet understand one thing, what would it be?

Early Attachment

Children need a consistent caregiver who is empathetic and warm to show up in their lives. Early development and learning are extremely important to children. The early years are when the personality development takes place. By age five years the personality is pretty much formed. Children from the time that they come into the world…

Hot Air Balloons

I’ve had this fascination with hot air balloons since I was a child. I even had some fabric ones that would hang from my ceiling in my room growing up. I’ve never had the desire to ride in one but, find them to be incredibly beautiful to look at. There is something about a big…

Decorating

When you choose a home, you want to make it feel like yours. You can put things that are meaningful to you and reflect your own style. Whether you decide for your home to be country, modern, Victorian or something else you want your home to feel cozy. A home should be a place that…

When you are in a relationship with a boyfriend, finance or husband certain issues will come up in the relationship as time goes on. A good relationship is one where open communication and mutual understanding are practiced. Respect is important and so is helping each other on a daily basis. A good relationship both members of the relationship get something from it. Both members benefit from the relationship. Love can be practiced on a daily or weekly basis. Such things like acts of service where you perform deeds that make your partner’s life easier in some way. The other way to show love is my using words to show the other person that they matter in your life. Another way that love is shown is by giving gifts to your significant other to show that you appreciate them. Finally physical touch is another. It’s a good idea to understand your partner’s love language so that you can practice it and help to make them feel loved. Everyone wants to feel loved and appreciated. What did you do today to appreciate your partner? A great book called Acts of Love written by Gary Chapman lists all the different ways that you can show love to your partner.

I have some ideas of how you can show your partner that you love and appreciate them. Why not make their lunch for them and include a love note with it. Perhaps you could buy them their favorite socks or snack when you are out somewhere. Another great way is to tell them every day that you love them and why you love them. A husband might make sure that his wife’s car repairs are always done to show that he loves her. A wife or girlfriend might make her husband’s favorite drink and bring it to him. It really is the simple things that mean the most but, add up over time.

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2 responses to “Love Communication”

  1. Christopher Snell Avatar

    The Five Languages of Love, by Gary Chapman
    * Acts of Service… Doing chores, running errands, or fixing her car, building flowerbeds, doing something special just for them.
    * Quality Time… Special, set aside time. A night out on the town, a weekend without the kids…
    * Words of Affirmation… Saying loving and encouraging things, saying “I love you” often. Constant reassurance and compliments.
    * Physical Touch… Holding hands or giving massages. Anything that would be as a loving, affectionate, and healing touch.
    * Gifts… Bringing flowers, something specially created just for them, and just for the sake of giving.
    Being able to speak your partner’s love language needs to be something that comes easily to you, because if it doesn’t it will become a loud deal breaker, and the only reason the relationship flies apart.
    It takes amazing trust with great comprehension and gentle clarity to find ways to fill those needs elsewhere, and keep the original relationship in tacked. It can be done with a LOT of gentle and clear communication with your partner/spouse. Either that or simply step out.
    Sent with blessings.

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    1. kimsenecal Avatar

      Thank you for bringing this to our attention. I had forgotten to add his name to my blog and now it is in there.

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